It is with profound sadness, tons of countless heavy hearts and total submission to the will of the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful Allah (SWT) that we witness the untimely passing of a beloved friend, cherished brother, an exceptional colleague, and a true embodiment of humility, humbleness, and commitment to a noble cause, Mustapha Balarabe Adamu. His sudden departure has left an irreparable and irreplaceable bottomless void in our lives and our community that will forever ache with his absence.
Balarabe Mustapha Adamu (aka Bala Poly) is a name that resonates with grace and dignity. He was a man of exceptional character and unwavering faith. He lived his life as a shining example of humility, always putting others before himself and leading with a heart full of compassion. His commitment to serving others was evident in every facet of his life, from his professional endeavours to his roles as a brother, friend, husband, father, and a colleague.
Born at the ancient city of Bichi, Kano State, Balarabe’s life journey was destined for treasured memories. From a young age, he exhibited a deep sense of devotion to his principles and his faith. His unyielding dedication to his religious beliefs was a driving force in shaping his life, and he radiated that devotion in all his interactions. Bala Poly was a religious person per excellence, a true soul who found solace and strength in his spirituality.
In the realm of professional endeavours, Malam Bala was a beacon of commitment and competence. His friends and colleagues remember him as a devout and hardworking individual who never shied away from taking on challenging tasks. His ability to bring people together and foster collaboration was mesmerizing.
His style of leading with his heart and mind was truly admirable. Imam (as fondly called by his close confidants) has an unwavering commitment to his family and thus, remained an inspiration to all who had the privilege of associating with him.
Indeed, Bala’s greatness truly shone in his roles as a husband and a father. To his respected wife, he was more than a partner; he washer rock, her confidant, and her unwavering support. Their love was a testament to the beauty of companionship and partnership. Imam Bala’s caring nature and genuine concern for his wife’s well-being were a source of comfort and strength that she will forever hold close to her heart.
As a father, Imam was the epitome of compassion and altruism. He wasn’t just a father; he was a coach, a mentor, a counsellor and a friend like no other. He leaves nobody in doubt that his two beloved children were his pride and joy, and he dedicated himself to nurturing their dreams and aspirations. His caring nature, patience, and unconditional love shaped the lives of his children in countless profound ways, ensuring they had a solid foundation to build upon as they navigate life’s journey.
His impact extended far beyond his immediate family. He was a friend who touched the lives of countless individuals with his kind words, warm smiles, and genuine interest in their well-being. His presence had a way of making others feel valued, heard, and understood. The world truly felt like a better and a brighter place in his company. It is particularly heart-wrenching that Imam Bala’s passing comes at a time when his presence is needed more than ever.
His unwavering support, his comforting words, and his disarming humility are things we find ourselves insatiably yearning for in these difficult times. His absence leaves a void that cannot be filled, and our hearts ache with the knowledge that we can no longer enjoy his company or bask in the euphoria of his heartwarming presence.
While Mustapha may no longer walk among us, his legacy of love, humility, and devotion will continue to shine brightly in our hearts.
As we mourn his loss, let us also celebrate the simple life he lived and the profound impact he had on all of us. Let us remember Mustapha Balarabe Adamu as a true embodiment of what it means to be selfless, compassionate, and deeply devoted to a cause greater than oneself. In his memory, let us strive to carry forward the values that Malam Bala held dear.
May we find strength in his example and continue to spread love, kindness, and understanding in our own lives. Though he may be physically gone, his spirit lives on in the lives he touched, the memories he created, and the love he shared.
As we say goodbye to our dear friend, brother, colleague, husband, father, and confidant, let us hold onto the lessons we learnt from him and the indelible mark he left on our hearts. Rest in eternal peace, Mustapha Balarabe Adamu, knowing that your presence will forever be felt in the lives you touched and the hearts you uplifted.
“The best among you are those who have the best manners and character,” – Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). Indeed, you truly lived up to this noble tradition of the Seal of the Prophets.
May you find solace in the limitless mercy of the Most Merciful Lord as you are ushered into an endless bliss like no other.
Mr Sabo writes from Kaduna
